Your rule is the correct one and it is worth stating even more narrowly: never write the words compliant, complies or in accordance with as a conclusion about a jurisdiction where you are not registered. Say what standard you designed to, what checks you performed, what assumptions you made, and what remains to be verified. The compliance statement is an act of professional certification and it belongs entirely to the person who seals. I have seen this go wrong not through anyone trying to overstep but through a helpful email — an engineer confirming to a contractor that a detail is fine, with no seal and no intention to certify, and that email being produced later as the basis on which construction proceeded.
The practical control that has worked for me across four jurisdictions is a fixed limitations block on every deliverable, not just the final report. It states the standard used, that the work is design assistance provided to the registered engineer of record, that no compliance determination for the jurisdiction is made, and that the deliverable is not for construction until sealed. Putting it on calculation sheets and model exports as well as reports matters, because the documents that circulate informally are the ones that create the exposure, and a calculation sheet with no limitations block on it travels a long way.
